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By His Stripes We Are Healed

Hello friends.  It’s been a few weeks since my last blog entry at the beginning of February.  Since then, I’ve had the wonderful blessing of speaking to the friends of Catholic Radio station KEXS in Overland Park, Kansas and visiting EWTN to discuss some upcoming changes.  We have already shared some with you including our new programming lineup and there are some I will save to announce later.  The Holy Spirit seems to be moving our ministry in some very exciting new directions and I ask that you will pray for us to be docile to His promptings as we discern and move forward. This week marks the 31st birthday of my deceased son, Simon.  It is a bittersweet time for me and my daughters.  Although, in many ways the pain of loss has lessened, there are still many moments in which my heart aches very deeply for both Simon and my husband Anthony.  It is during these celebratory times that the pain is felt more acutely. As a mother, I can’t help but to think of Our Lady, on the day when Simeon announced to her that her own heart would be pierced by a sword and she recognized the sacrifice that she would be called to make with her son.  For Mary, this was another fiat in which she fully cooperated with the grace of the Holy Spirit and with docility, interiorly replied “let it be done unto me according your word.” If God Loves Us, Why Does He Let Us Suffer? But for us, the times of suffering and travail can be a time of questioning and doubt.  If God loves us, why does He let us suffer? This is an age-old question, one that is asked by countless numbers of people in every generation. It is one which we will explore deeply in my newest Women of Grace Study Series entitled “Mending the Wounds of the Heart.”  But as we continue on our Lenten journey and as I reflect on the pains of loss, I thought it might be helpful to provide a short teaching for those who may also be experiencing some kind of suffering this Lenten season. Firstly, it important to remember what St. Paul tells us in Romans 8:28, “We know that in every thing God works for good with those who love him, who are called according to his purpose.”  It was the fall of Adam and Even which brought sin and suffering into the world but here St. Paul tells us that suffering will be the instrument for man's greatest hope. Just this news alone is crushing to the serpent in the garden. What He thought HE'D use to foil God's plan for man - sin and suffering - God will use as the VERY means through which His love with triumph in the world. God will permit His Son to take upon Himself the sin of the world with all of its consequences including suffering, and nail it to the tree with Him. He will overcome sin and death, suffering and travail, selfishness and perversity! We also hear in IsScourgedJesusaiah 23: "Surely he has borne our griefs and carried our sorrows; yet we esteemed him stricken, smitten by God, and afflicted. But he was wounded for our transgressions, he was bruised for our iniquities; upon him was the chastisement that made us whole, and with his stripes we are healed." Really hear these words "By his stripes we are healed." Jesus bore all of your affliction, all of your sorrow, all of your suffering. But not just to make it through, but to experience joy even in the midst of your grief, your sadness, you suffering. Love Wins The Day So, what happens here?  Love wins the day. And what is the expression of that love? Suffering is the means that expresses it. John 3:16 says, "For God so loved the world that He sent His only Son that everyone who believed in Him might not perish but have life everlasting." By investing divine life into the void of evil, God makes suffering a suitable instrument out of which He can work the greatest good - the salvation of mankind. Thus, God gives suffering a new purpose, a new value, a supernatural dimension through which great good can be worked in the world. It is our baptism in Christ Jesus that makes this possible. Through our baptism we are incorporated into the paschal mystery. And what is the paschal mystery? It is the passion, death, and resurrection of Our Lord Jesus Christ. Our baptismal grace is our entrance into this mystery of salvation and all the wonders it contains -- including the capacity of our sufferings to be united to those of Christ and be used by Him for great good. Every suffering then, holds the promise of transformation if we will but unite it to the passion of Christ. And herein lies the secret that all the great saints knew, a secret revealed to them in the depths of their own sufferings, pains, torments, and trials: that in the midst of the greatest difficulty, the greatest injustice, the greatest travail, we can suffer with Christ in His passion and work with Him to bring salvation to souls - our soul and the souls of others. Now do we see the great gift given to us in every contradiction and trial. Now do we see the pearl of great price hidden in the horrid and ugly. Now do we see the shimmering grace veiled by the painful and sorrowful? I have personally suffered great losses in my life.  But in every case, I have seen the magnificent glory that can be ours when we seek to discover the joy that sometimes comes packaged in the dark garments of suffering. However, we must be receptive. We must be open. We must be willing to mine that treasury of grace waiting for us in the suffering. One of the greatest treasures is our own purification.  In Zechariah13:9 we read: "I will bring one third through fire, and I will purify them as silver is refined, and I will test them as gold is tested. They shall call upon my name, and I will hear them. I will say, 'they are my people," and they will say, "The Lord is my God." God wants to purify us of all that holds us back from him, all that hinders our progress on the way to sanctification and holiness. He wants to remove the alloy of our lives that we might be that fire tried gold, made resilient in him and through him. Shining and gleaming with his glory. And one of the ways this takes place is by embracing the sufferings and trials we experience and permitting God to work in them and through them for our betterment and purification. We are all going to suffer. The broken and fallen world in which we live assures us of that. But how we suffer, what we do with the suffering, that is what makes the difference. The great saints used their sufferings as a means of purgation and purification. Not waiting for the fires of purgatory to have their affect, they embraced the crosses entrusted to them and cooperated with grace to work out that process in this life. That is why the great saints rejoiced in suffering and regarded the greatest cross to be no cross at all. Is it possible for us to adopt this vision of our own sufferings and trials? Could it be that God is permitting the wound of heart to remain so that we can come to this recognition and see the great gift that lies underneath this wrapping of travail? Can we, seek to acquire this supernatural vision?

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Are You Ready For LENT?

87567178Lent is upon us. I’m wondering if you have asked yourself how you will make your Lenten preparation for Easter? It’s a good question to ask. Life being what it is, I have often found it beneficial to come up with a plan and a strategy to help me enter more deeply into the Lenten season. In years past, I have planned and strategized how to “give up” --- Certain foods or treats  -- don’t buy them; Activities and recreations -- don’t go to them; Habits and behaviors -- don’t do them. One year I even gave up going to the mall -- don’t drive by it. That was my longest Lent ever! Along with the exclusions, I have often added a few inclusions: more time in prayer, study, and adoration; additional acts of charity; exchanging a bad habit with a good one.

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Getting IT Done

87686113I don't know how your week has been, but mine has been very busy. So busy, in fact, that I still have the majority of my "To Do" list in tact.  Weeks like this can be disheartening. And yet, it is part of the human experience. Even among the saints. St. Teresa Benedicta of the Cross, for example,  apparently had a week or two like this from time to time. She gives us good advice. She said:   "When night comes, and retrospect shows that everything was patchwork and much that one had planned left undone, when so many things rouse shame and regret, then take all as is, lay it in God's hands, and offer it up to Him. In this way we will be able to rest in Him, actually to rest and to begin the new day like a new life." 87508265   I am going to take her advice, and begin again ... Next week. For now, I'm going to take a rest!

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Inspiration in the Midst of Tragedy

It is true that the earthquake in Haiti this week has shaken us all. The 87702687loss of life, the devastation and the impact on the Church in this poorest of poor countries is a tragedy for which there are no words. And yet, we do know that the words Scripture gives us are true: "For God works all things for the good for those who are called according to His purpose" (Romans 8:28).

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"Splendor of Truth:" An Evening with George Weigel

Last evening I attended a lecture given by George Weigel here in Clearwater, FL. The event was held by Jay and Lisa Kelly who seek to provide local Catholics with the opportunity to hear great Catholic speakers. Calling their new-found organization Splendor of Truth, the evening begins with the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass and includes an open bar and dinner.

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My Top Twelve Blessings in 2009

87496898As we cast a backward glance to 2009 and enter 2010, it is good to take a reflective moment to thank God for the many blessings we have received in the recently parted year. It may even be helpful to record them in your journal. Sometimes these blessings are obvious such as family, friends, and good health. Sometimes they are taken for granted like food on the table, a roof over our head, the conveniences of everyday living.  And sometimes, the greatest blessings of all are shrouded in dark packaging like the trials, tribulations, reversals and contradictions of daily life. What were your top twelve blessings in 2009? Mine follow.

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Solemnity of Mary, Mother of God

What wisdom Holy Mother Church has in dedicating the first day of the year to Mary, Mother of God! 1001738760

 Mary is the Mother of God and she is our mother, too. Her fiat is the genesis of every fiat given to God. And every fiat given to God is enriched by hers. The fathers of the Second Vatican Council state it simply, succinctly, and profoundly: she is our Mother in the order of grace.

This poem, written by Giovanni Domini (1356-142), expresses the maternal beatitude we find so dear. May it elevate our hearts in gratitude to God for the gift of the Blessed Virgin. And may it elevate our hearts to the reality of our salvation which comes through the gift of her Son, Jesus Christ Savior of the World.

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"Brilliant" Idea Yields Christmas Recipes

  Last Wednesday on our radio program, Women of Grace Live (Weekdays 11 AM ET via EWTN Radio or via podcast 87496179www.womenofgrace.com and Sirius 160) I had a "scathingly brilliant idea"(Hayley Mills, The Trouble with Angels). Why not post some of our listeners, viewers, and blog readers favorite Christmas recipes? So, I invited everyone to send in their submissions. The following culinary delights were sent to us by Mike from Terre Haute, Indiana. I'd love to receive your submissions as well. You can do so by sending them to info@womenofgrace.com or by way of "Comments" right here on the blog. Mike's recipes follow. Happy cooking and joyful eating!

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Could November Be Over Already? A Month in Review

Well, I can't believe it has been this long since I have posted a blog. A big mea culpa to all of you! I must admit that the last part of October and all of November was a whirlwind of activity, travel, and production. That is my excuse and I hope you accept it. As an olive branch, however,  Iwould like to offer you a snapshot of what has been happening in our apostolate as well as in my personal life.

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